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Your partner hides their drinking, blames you, gets defensive and says they don’t really want to stop drinking…

But deep down, you know they can’t keep going like this (and neither can you). And you’re tired of feeling like nothing you say or do makes a difference in their drinking.

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Sobriety is possible and you DO have influence over your partner making changes.

You need real skills, strategies and support to help your partner get sober.


Join 190+ women learning (proven steps) to move their partner closer to sobriety without detaching, leaving, or waiting for “rock bottom”.

Healing Together Course & Private Community is the step-by-step guide and support space you need to help your partner toward sobriety.

 FAQs

  • No, it will show as “Mariah Kay Coaching” on your bank statement. You do NOT have to worry about “My Husband's Addiction” showing on your bank statement. 🤍

  • This group is all written and online. There are no specific call times. There IS 24/7 access for you to post, share, use the skills course and ask questions.

    We reply every single day in this group (M-F). The moment you join, you get access and can start asking questions, connecting and sharing with others.

    BONUS: There are live monthly calls - these will change day and time monthly.

  • This is a safe place. We will never tell you to "leave" your partner.

    We will never talk down about your partner.

    This group is about supporting YOU on your unique journey so that you can feel empowered to make the best decision for your life, on your terms.

    Anyone in the group who is unkind will be removed immediately (this has never happened).

  • YES, you can remain anonymous! You can set your user name to show whatever you’d like when you join us. This is a PRIVATE community. The only people who can see your posts inside are those who pay to be inside of the membership. If it makes you feel more comfortable, you can also create or use any name you'd like in the group if you prefer to stay private.

  • Yes

  • YES❤️ We have women from all over. The group has 24/7 online access so you can share, post questions and learn from the CRAFT on-demand trainings anytime - day or night.

  • No. 💛 This is a PRIVATE community. The only people who can see your posts inside are those who pay to be inside of the membership.

    If it makes you feel more comfortable, you can also create or use any name you'd like in the group if you prefer to stay private.

  • This membership is more than a support group. 

    You will have access to tools and higher touch/higher level of support in this group. It is far more hands on, valuable and individualized beyond a typical “support group”.

    While there is space to share and support each other, We will also be providing specific individualized feedback, tools and support to your unique questions.

    The tools and resources provided are those that I've paid for overtime and I've redesigned them and added things specifically for this group.

    You also always get a response to every single question you post, as much as you need, daily.

  • Healing Together Membership is online from a computer or your phone (there is a free phone app) called Circle Communities.

    As soon as you join, you will get a link with steps to set up your account.

  • Yes. Healing Together is based on the proven CRAFT Method which is built for situations where direct conversations aren’t creating change anywhere.

    You’ll learn specific strategies to lower resistance so your partner becomes more open to talking. E

    ven if they stay closed off at first, you’ll still have tools to influence change through your actions, your reinforcement, and your own calm, confident presence.

    We even help you word the conversation based on you, your family, your partner and your unique situation.

  • Yes.

    This membership was designed exactly for those situations.

    If your partner is stuck in denial, swears they can handle it on their own, or has made promises to cut back only to fall back into old habits, you’re not alone — most of our members start here.

    Inside Healing Together, you’ll learn the CRAFT Method which is a proven, evidence-based approach that teaches you how to:

    Lower defensiveness and resistance Make sobriety more appealing than drinking

    Motivate your partner to want to change

    Guide them toward saying yes to help or treatment

    Even if they’ve refused it before… even if they’ve tried and failed… these tools work to move them closer to recovery without detaching, leaving, or waiting for rock bottom.

  • Yes.

    Lying about drinking is incredibly common when someone is struggling with addiction. It’s usually not about trying to hurt you or make you feel crazy it’s about protecting the addiction.

    The CRAFT Method you’ll learn inside Healing Together is designed to work even when your partner isn’t being honest.

    You’ll learn how to reduce defensiveness, make honesty more likely, and keep moving them toward change without getting stuck in endless arguments about “if” they drank.

What members say when asked: “What would you tell someone who is thinking about joining Healing Together but isn’t sure yet?”

  • Join it. It provides real support and strategies that are practical and effective.

    -Healing Together Member

  • Knowing you're in a similar situation to others/not alone is so helpful.

    -Healing Together Member

  • JOIN! Give it three months of commitment and I promise that YOU will be in a better place for YOU

    -Healing Together Member

  • What have you got to lose? Hours pass… we can spend them learning or staying stuck. Only one of those options gives any hope for change.

    -Healing Together Member

  • It’s awesome! Mariah is very clear with her advice and knowledgeable

    -Healing Together Member

  • I would tell them that I have tried it all and after years of a different program this is the only thing that has even come to helping my partner get sober and for me to stay sane and have the right support. Do it! You will never regret it.

    -Healing Together Member

  • Do it! You will learn, you will feel supported, you will grow, your relationship will improve, you will find bits of joy

    -Healing Together Member

  • Give it a try! You don't know what you don't know. This can help you, even if your partner continues to struggle.

    -Healing Together Member

  • Go for it, you will never regret it!

    -Healing Together Member

Healing Together Success Stories

  • "He’s 52 days sober! I never thought I’d be saying that, but here we are. This group and these strategies changed everything."

    -Healing Together Member

  • "I used to spend all my time trying to fix him, and it was draining me. This group gave me my life back—now I take care of myself, and surprisingly, he's drinking less too."

    -Healing Together Member

  • He actually comes home much earlier not buzzed or drunk which is a huge win. I know there will be ups and downs. This paired with his unprompted apology really helps me see how CRAFT is working to break old patterns and cycles.

    -Healing Together Member

  • "This group has truly been a saving grace for my mental health. I went from feeling completely alone to feeling supported, hopeful, and strategic about my partner’s sobriety journey."

    -Healing Together Member

  • "I was nervous about joining, but it's truly life-changing. Since starting Healing Together, my partner has joined therapy, and I finally feel like I know what I’m doing."

    -Healing Together Member

  • We did it! (Obviously this is only the first step, and there's still such a long, hard battle in front of us. The risk of relapse is high etc etc. But I just need to celebrate this win!! This is the first time EVER he admitted he cannot drink and sobriety is the only thing that will work. When I stopped enabling and fixing things for him, he felt the fear of losing everything - friends, family, me. And he decided he would choose sobriety and enter an outpatient rehab programme with intensive therapy.

    -Healing Together Member

  • After a few months of supporting him strategically in the membership, he has decided to try a 30 day rehab. I view it as an investment into our future.

    -Healing Together Member

  • He started therapy on Saturday!!! One shift I noticed in myself is that I don't feel total "rage" inside me when he goes to the bar after work. I set my boundary, watch a show or movie by myself and enjoy my night -It feels more peaceful that we are not arguing all the time. He does get angry sometimes when he has more to drink and almost mocks me for setting my boundary, but when he's sober the next day he understands Love this group!

    -Healing Together Member

  • He has acknowledge that drinking has negatively affected our relationship. He has been trying to cut back on drinking. And I can see him trying to be more emotionally connected to me.

    -Healing Together Member

  • I'm able to manage my thoughts feelings and conversations a lot better avoiding so many arguments. Ive learned to let him open up to me on his own time and listen to his thoughts and feelings about his journey instead of me trying to paint the picture or initiate the conversations. Overall feeling less anxious if I'm going about my day and coming home to him.

    -Healing Together Member

  • I’ve finally been seeing the cycle breaking for real. The hard days are more manageable and end up having a more positive turn out than in the past.

    -Healing Together Member

  • My partner decided on his own to take a break from drinking for 6 weeks. Before his break he was drinking 7 days a week and sometimes all day on the weekends. He went from saying "I'll probably always drink so if you don't like it you can go" to " I don't like how drinking makes me feel, look, or act and I don't like how drinking has been in the way of so many things I would like to be able to do with my life". He has not been drunk in over 9 weeks.

    -Healing Together Member

Have more questions? I'm happy to answer them personally.

More About Mariah

Mariah - The Founder of Healing Together

CRAFT-certified coach, and someone who’s been exactly where you are.

For years, I tried everything to fix my husband’s drinking. I begged, argued, cried, and felt like I was losing myself in the process. It wasn’t until I stopped trying to control his addiction — and started learning how to support real change — that everything shifted.

Now, he's sober. And I'm here to help other women feel the clarity, peace, and strength I once wished I had.

Healing Together is the community I needed when I felt most alone — and the one I’m so honored to offer you now.

Learn more about me here