If you love someone who’s struggling with addiction, and you feel like you’ve tried everything—yes. My work is specifically designed to support partners of people struggling with substance use. You don’t have to do this alone. And you don’t have to wait until things get worse to get support.

You don’t have to. I help women who want to stay—but feel exhausted, confused, or stuck. My approach is about strategic support and protecting your peace, so you can feel stronger and more in control WHILE you help move your partner closer to sobriety.

Most women I work with have a partners who is currently in denial or resistant to change. That’s normal—and it doesn’t mean nothing can be done. The method I use is designed to help you shift the dynamic at home, so your partner becomes more open to change—without ultimatums or power struggles.

No. I specialize in supporting individuals with a loved one / partner who is struggling with alcohol or substance use. I work with spouses and long-term partners.

Nope. This is for you.
Your partner doesn’t need to attend, agree with you, or even know you’ve joined. Our coaching is about helping you learn how to respond differently, communicate effectively, and support their recovery—without needing them to change first.

In fact, most of the individuals I work with start this journey alone. And many go on to see real change in their partner—because they started showing up differently themselves.

I believe in empowering you with tools that actually help your partner change. I don’t teach detachment or waiting for rock bottom. I teach research-backed strategies that work in real life. If you’ve tried support groups but didn’t get actionable help… you’re in the right place.

Yes. That’s exactly what I do.

Most women who join Healing Together are in relationships where their partner is still in denial, doesn’t think their drinking is “that bad,” or gets defensive every time it’s brought up.

You don’t need your partner to admit there’s a problem in order to start seeing change.
Through the CRAFT method, I teach you how to:

• Recognize and respond to denial in a way that doesn’t cause more defensiveness

• Use communication strategies that actually get through

• Reinforce their non-using behavior and create momentum for change

• Handle moments of resistance or relapse without losing yourself

You’ll learn how to become the most effective person in their life to support recovery—even if they’re not asking for help.