You love your partner.
But nothing you say or do is changing their drinking.
You’ve tried talking about it.
You’ve tried staying quiet.
You’ve tried keeping the peace, setting boundaries, calling it out…
And somehow, nothing changes long term with their drinking.
Healing Together Membership & Private Community
A step-by-step program and support community to help you move your partner closer to sobriety, while protecting your peace.
Your partner hides, denies or downplays their drinking. Blames you, gets defensive and says they don’t want to stop drinking.
You tell yourself you won’t bring it up tonight.
Just keep it calm.
Don’t start anything.
But you notice it.
The smell.
The shift in their tone.
The way they’re acting.
So you say something… carefully.
And they respond with:
“I only had a couple.”
“You’re overreacting.”
“I don’t have a problem.”
Or they shut it down completely.
Change the subject.
Turn it back on you.
And now you’re not just dealing with the drinking
you’re dealing with the denial, the defensiveness… and the blame.
So you’re left deciding:
Do I push this and risk a fight?
Or stay quiet and carry it alone… again?
You’ve tried everything you know how to do.
You’ve:
had the conversations
stayed quiet to keep the peace
made requests
tried to set boundaries
hoped this time would be different
And somehow… nothing actually changes.
It’s exhausting.
Because underneath all of it, you know the truth:
They can’t keep going like this.
And neither can you.
But no matter what you say or do…
it still feels like nothing makes a difference.
And you’re left wondering:
Why isn’t anything helping?
It’s not that you haven’t tried hard enough.
It’s that nothing you’ve been shown is designed to actually work.
You’ve tried talking about it.
Trying to get them to see it.
Or you’ve stayed quiet to avoid another fight.
But either way, it keeps leading to the same place:
defensiveness
denial
or a conversation that goes nowhere
Not because you’re doing anything wrong
but because addiction thrives in blaming you.
The more you push
the more they resist
The more you explain
the more they deny
So you get stuck in a cycle where nothing changes.
Because this isn’t about saying the right thing once
or loving them enough to change
It’s about understanding how change actually happens.
Sobriety doesn’t just happen.
It happens when motivation starts to shift.
And that shift comes from learning how to:
reduce defensiveness
respond in a way that moves things forward
and reinforce change so it actually sticks
That’s the piece you’ve been missing.
You are not powerless, you HAVE influence over your partners addiction..
When you decide to stop giving the drinking, arguing, and begging all your energy, you can strategically help move your partner closer to sobriety.
Imagine that you bring up their drinking without it turning into defensiveness, denial, or a fight.
You say it…
and instead of it escalating
you know exactly how to handle whatever comes next.
No spiraling.
No second-guessing.
No walking on eggshells.
You stop scanning the room.
Stop trying to manage every mood, every moment.
Because you’re not reacting anymore
you’re responding with a clear plan.
You know:
when to say something
what to say
and when to step back without feeling guilty
And instead of the same cycle repeating…
things start to shift.
Less defensiveness.
More openness.
More moments where they actually hear you.
Not because you forced it
but because you changed how you show up.
And for the first time in a long time
you feel like yourself again
present
steady
and no longer consumed by their drinking
I hear from women every day who are trying so hard to help
who love their partner
but feel like addiction has taken over the relationship
Like nothing they say or do is making a difference.
And that makes sense.
Because no one ever taught you how to support a partner with addiction in a way that actually works.
You’ve read the books.
Maybe joined a support group.
But no one showed you:
how to talk about their drinking without it turning into a fight
how to set boundaries that don’t make things worse
or how to respond in a way that actually moves your partner closer to sobriety
So you’ve been doing the best you can with what you know.
But the problem isn’t that you’re not trying hard enough
it’s that most approaches rely on pressure
and pressure creates resistance.
The more they feel pushed
the more they defend the drinking
The more you try to get them to see it
the more they shut down
So nothing actually changes.
Because change doesn’t come from arguing, begging, or waiting for the right moment.
It comes from learning how to:
reduce defensiveness instead of triggering it
respond in a way that shifts the dynamic
and reinforce change so it actually sticks
Those are the skills you’ve been missing.
UNTIL NOW…
Introducing…
This is exactly what Healing Together was created to do.
Healing Together is a step-by-step program and private support community designed to help you:
influence real change in your partner’s drinking
without losing yourself in the process.
This isn’t another venting group.
And it’s not just information you’ll forget when you need it most.
This is a structured approach that shows you exactly what to say and do
in the moments that actually matter.
So instead of guessing…
reacting…
or repeating the same cycle
you have a clear way to move things forward.
Here's What You Get Inside...
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Move Your Partner Closer to Sobriety Training Course
A step by step method that helps you get your loved one closer to sobriety (based on the proven CRAFT Method)
✔ Stop reacting and start responding with with strategy for change
✔ Communicate in ways that build motivation for change
✔ Set boundaries that actually work
✔ Respond to relapse without losing your peace🎧 Accessible anytime from your phone (listen on the go) or from your computer. Plus get access to live call replays.
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24/7 Personalized Expert Guidance, Steps & Support
Never wait for help. Inside Healing Together, you get real-life guidance, on-demand video course, scripts, and daily personalized coaching (from real humans) so you know exactly what to say and do in your specific situation
Get clarity on what to say, how to respond, and how to stay calm when things get hard and how to HELP move your partner closer to sobriety (instead of slowing it down) all inside a safe, coaching-based space. -
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A Private Community With 190+ Wives Choosing To Stay
You’re not crazy, selfish, or alone and you’ll never be told to leave your partner.
This private space is full of women learning the same tools to help their partner move toward sobriety while protecting their own peace.Healing Together is a private community and ongoing access to support so you’re not navigating this alone when things are actually happening
This isn’t about putting more on your plate.
It’s about finally having a clear, strategic path
so you can stop guessing…
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Exclusive Access to the Private Podcast: Honest Talks with Mariah & Her Husband
Hear both sides of addiction and recovery in our private podcast.
We share how denial broke, what early sobriety looked like, and the turning points that changed everything.
Raw, real, and only for Healing Together members.This is your chance to hear the truth, unfiltered from both perspectives.
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Live Monthly Q&A & Training Workshops + Replays
Join live coaching calls and training workshops every month or watch replays anytime.
Learn exactly how to:
✔ Communicate without triggering defensiveness
✔ Set and stick to boundaries
✔ Protect your peace while helping your partner changeASK ANY QUESTION … and so much more!
Instant access to every replay so you can learn and apply the skills at your own pace.
What members say when asked: “What would you tell someone who is thinking about joining Healing Together but isn’t sure yet?”
THE BEST PART
Support that doesn’t quit
Healing Together isn’t just another venting group and self-paced help.
Inside, you’re getting:
💛 A Guided Onboarding Experience
Overwhelm doesn’t live here.
If you’ve ever joined a program only to feel lost, confused, or left behind… that ends now. As soon as you join, you’ll get instant access to a step-by-step welcome path that shows you exactly where to start based on your situation — whether they’re in denial, drinking daily, or newly sober.
You’ll know where to go, what to watch, and how to start creating change (without trying to do it all at once).
💛 Live Coaching & Q&A Every Month
You don’t have to do this alone or guess your way through anymore.
Each month, I go live inside Healing Together to help you navigate your partner’s addiction, set boundaries that actually work, and know what to say (and when).
You can bring your questions, your specific situation, and get direct coaching from me and my team of CRAFT-informed coaches every step of the way.
💛 A Private, Judgment-Free Community
You’re joining over 190 women who get it, are done walking on eggshells and ready for peace.
This isn’t a venting group. It’s a space to learn, grow, and connect with others who are learning to respond differently, support change effectively, and protect their own peace while doing it.
You’ll never have to explain your situation again. Everyone here already understands.
💛 Accountability + Real Progress
No more “buy it and forget it.”
Between the coaching calls, 16+ hours of on demand training videos, daily Q&A, and community check-ins — you’ll stay consistent, supported, and focused on what actually helps.
When you start to lose hope or question if it’s working, we’ll be right there to remind you of how far you’ve come and help you keep going.
START HEALING WITH HEALING TOGETHER
Science-backed strategies, real support, and a community that understands what you’re going through — created by someone who’s lived it, is still married and knows what actually helps.
WHAT ELSE IS INCLUDED:
• All lessons and trainings inside Healing Together: The full membership program designed to help you move your partner closer to sobriety while protecting your own peace.
• 60 + CRAFT-based video trainings that show you exactly what to say, when to say it, and how to communicate without starting fights.
• A growing library of on-demand workshops on denial, boundaries, communication, relapse, emotional regulation, and rebuilding trust.
• Interactive worksheets that help you apply every skill in real-life situations (so you stop guessing what to do next).
• Ongoing updates and new lessons added regularly so you’ll always have access to the latest trainings and replays.
WHAT ELSE IS INCLUDED:
• Private community of over 190 women who understand exactly what you’re living through — no judgment, no shame, just support and strategy.
• Monthly live coaching calls + Q&A with Mariah to get personalized help for your situation.
• Daily access to get answers from Mariah & her coaches inside the community for real-time guidance and feedback.
• Bonus library: Past live call replays and special trainings, including “How to Get Your Partner Out of Denial,” “When to Talk About Their Drinking,” and “Rebuilding Trust.”
• Live Q&A with Mariah & her husband: Live calls with Mariah’s husband (who is now over 18+ months sober) to share what helped him get sober. No questions are off the table.
Monthly Membership
$37/per month
Cancel Anytime
Quarterly Membership
$99/per quarter
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FAQs
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No, it will show as “Mariah Kay Coaching” on your bank statement. You do NOT have to worry about “My Husband's Addiction” showing on your bank statement. 🤍
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This group is all written and online. There are no specific call times. There IS 24/7 access for you to post, share, use the skills course and ask questions.
We reply every single day in this group (M-F). The moment you join, you get access and can start asking questions, connecting and sharing with others.
BONUS: There are live monthly calls - these will change day and time monthly.
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This is a safe place. We will never tell you to "leave" your partner.
We will never talk down about your partner.
This group is about supporting YOU on your unique journey so that you can feel empowered to make the best decision for your life, on your terms.
Anyone in the group who is unkind will be removed immediately (this has never happened).
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YES, you can remain anonymous! You can set your user name to show whatever you’d like when you join us. This is a PRIVATE community. The only people who can see your posts inside are those who pay to be inside of the membership. If it makes you feel more comfortable, you can also create or use any name you'd like in the group if you prefer to stay private.
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Yes
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YES❤️ We have women from all over. The group has 24/7 online access so you can share, post questions and learn from the CRAFT on-demand trainings anytime - day or night.
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No. 💛 This is a PRIVATE community. The only people who can see your posts inside are those who pay to be inside of the membership.
If it makes you feel more comfortable, you can also create or use any name you'd like in the group if you prefer to stay private.
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This membership is more than a support group.
You will have access to tools and higher touch/higher level of support in this group. It is far more hands on, valuable and individualized beyond a typical “support group”.
While there is space to share and support each other, We will also be providing specific individualized feedback, tools and support to your unique questions.
The tools and resources provided are those that I've paid for overtime and I've redesigned them and added things specifically for this group.
You also always get a response to every single question you post, as much as you need, daily.
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Healing Together Membership is online from a computer or your phone (there is a free phone app) called Circle Communities.
As soon as you join, you will get a link with steps to set up your account.
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Yes. Healing Together is based on the proven CRAFT Method which is built for situations where direct conversations aren’t creating change anywhere.
You’ll learn specific strategies to lower resistance so your partner becomes more open to talking. E
ven if they stay closed off at first, you’ll still have tools to influence change through your actions, your reinforcement, and your own calm, confident presence.
We even help you word the conversation based on you, your family, your partner and your unique situation.
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Yes.
This membership was designed exactly for those situations.
If your partner is stuck in denial, swears they can handle it on their own, or has made promises to cut back only to fall back into old habits, you’re not alone — most of our members start here.
Inside Healing Together, you’ll learn the CRAFT Method which is a proven, evidence-based approach that teaches you how to:
Lower defensiveness and resistance Make sobriety more appealing than drinking
Motivate your partner to want to change
Guide them toward saying yes to help or treatment
Even if they’ve refused it before… even if they’ve tried and failed… these tools work to move them closer to recovery without detaching, leaving, or waiting for rock bottom.
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Yes.
Lying about drinking is incredibly common when someone is struggling with addiction. It’s usually not about trying to hurt you or make you feel crazy it’s about protecting the addiction.
The CRAFT Method you’ll learn inside Healing Together is designed to work even when your partner isn’t being honest.
You’ll learn how to reduce defensiveness, make honesty more likely, and keep moving them toward change without getting stuck in endless arguments about “if” they drank.
Healing Together Success Stories
Have more questions? I'm happy to answer them personally.
More About Mariah
Mariah - The Founder of Healing Together
CRAFT-certified coach, and someone who’s been exactly where you are.
For years, I tried everything to fix my husband’s drinking. I begged, argued, cried, and felt like I was losing myself in the process. It wasn’t until I stopped trying to control his addiction — and started learning how to support real change — that everything shifted.
Now, he's sober. And I'm here to help other women feel the clarity, peace, and strength I once wished I had.
Healing Together is the community I needed when I felt most alone — and the one I’m so honored to offer you now.
