YOU DESERVE REAL SUPPORT
Support that is proven to move your partner closer to sobriety.
Help them see they have a real problem. Get them to become open to therapy or treatment. Motivate them to reduce their drinking. Improve the happiness in your relationship. Improve communication and have productive conversations. More connection. Proven strategies to move your partner closer to sobriety.
That’s why we created Healing Together — a monthly membership designed to give you the real tools, real support, and a proven path to help your partner change while helping you feel calm, clear, and confident again.
Expert help, real support, and strategies that actually work.
You’ll get instant access to our core CRAFT trainings and step-by-step guides — so you can focus on exactly what your relationship needs, right when you need it.
Because you’re not just here to survive the chaos — you’re here to build something better.
Ready to see what’s possible for you and your partner?
SOBRIETY DOESN’T JUST MAGICALLY HAPPEN - IT TAKES MOTIVATION AND SUPPORT.
You want things to get better.
You love him. You want things to get better. But figuring out how to actually help him change — and stay connected through it all — is the hard part.
And while you’re trying to hold everything together — the house, the kids, your emotions — there’s little time left to even think about strategy, support, or next steps.
So you fall into old patterns. Avoid the hard conversations.
Brace yourself for the next drinking episode.
You’re not alone — and you’re not doing anything wrong.
This isn’t just about love. Moving them closer to sobriety is about skills.
Tools. Support.
Because sobriety doesn’t just happen.
It takes the right approach — and a community in your corner who gets it..
Your relationship affects everything.
When your partner is struggling with drinking, it doesn’t just impact them — it affects your peace, your energy, your confidence, and your entire relationship.
CRAFT proves that you have more influence than you think — your relationship can actually be the turning point in your partner’s path to sobriety.
And when you learn the right strategies to respond, communicate, and support change…
That’s when real progress towards sobriety and change happens.
1. According to CRAFT research studies, 7 out of 10 loved ones who learn these skills are able to get their partner into treatment within just 12 weeks— even if that partner didn’t think they had a problem or was resistant to treatment.
2. A 2019 study published in Addiction found that strong family support is one of the top predictors of long-term recovery, especially when loved ones are trained in how to respond to substance use with empathy, boundaries, and consistency.
3. Research shows that loved ones who stay engaged and supportive — in the right ways — significantly increase their partner’s chances of reducing or stopping substance use.
You don’t need to wait for rock bottom.
You don’t need to choose between loving your partner and protecting your peace.
You can learn how to support their recovery and your own healing — at the same time.
Most of us spend years making things worse by yelling, crying, begging, shaming and believing there is NOTHING we can do to get them to see they have a problem, get help and get better…
You become the “bad guy” in their story.
That’s not because you are controlling or “making things up” — it’s because there’s no clear roadmap for YOU to help your partner get sober.
UNTIL NOW…
Introducing…
Healing Together is the only membership designed to give you instant, on-demand access to proven, CRAFT-based support — so you can get the exact tools and guidance your relationship needs, right when you need them most.
This isn’t about putting more on your plate.
It’s about giving you a clear path to a relationship that feels calmer, more connected, and full of real hope again — no matter where your partner is in their sobriety journey.
Here’s what you get inside...
❤️🩹A Proven System For Real Results: Research-Backed Framework to Move Your Partner Closer to Sobriety
Access our CRAFT-informed, on-demand video course — the exact method proven to get 7 out of 10 partners into treatment.
You’ll learn how to:
Stop the cycle of reacting, begging, or threatening
Communicate in a way that builds motivation for sobriety
Set boundaries with compassion (and stick to them)
Respond to relapse without spiraling
PLUS: Get instant access to all past workshops + live coaching replays.
💬24/7 Personalized Expert Guidance: From Mariah and Her Trained CRAFT Coaches (Even at 2am)
You don’t have to wait for a live call to get help.
Inside the private community, you can:
Ask questions 24/7 and get personalized answers from me or my co-coach within 24 hours
Get written support when your partner denies the problem, drinks again, or things feel out of control
Learn from others’ experiences and feel less alone in the process
⛓️💥Breaking Cycles Challenges: Weekly Action Steps That Create Change Fast
Healing doesn’t have to take years.
With our Breaking Cycles Challenges, you’ll get:
Step-by-step prompts to shift your approach
Tools to reinforce non-drinking behavior
A focus each week to help you feel stronger, calmer, and more in control
❤️🔥The Power Of Knowing You’re Not Alone: A Private, Judgment-Free Community of Women Who Get It
Healing Together is a safe, compassionate space for women who are staying — and trying.
You’ll get:
Encouragement, understanding, and connection
A place to be real about how hard this is — without being told to leave
The reminder that you’re not crazy, selfish, or alone
You can even stay completely anonymous if you want. No pressure, just support.
🎙️Exclusive Access to The Private Podcast: Honest Talks with Me & My Husband
You’ll hear the inside story from both of us — including how we navigated denial, arguments, early sobriety, and what helped him actually decide to stop drinking.
Delivered in bite-sized episodes you can listen to on the go, whenever you need strength.
I WISH I would've had more support all of the years I was navigating my husband's addiction.
Inside of Healing Together, we put your happiness first.
We support you with your emotions, relapses, navigating how you feel and giving you skills to build a life you love.
2am and he comes home drunk, post in the community and your feelings out, be heard (never judged or told to “leave") .
Not sure how you want to navigate a conversation with your husband, post in the community and you'll get real answers on how to strategically converse with him about his addiction.
Feeling really overwhelmed or hurt, we are there to support you so you never are alone in this journey.
Have more peace in knowing you aren't alone and that there are real answers and real steps you can take to actively help your partner and yourself.
Over the years I've gathered tools, gotten coaching, worked with therapists and I've brought that all together into an online coaching & support membership for women like you and me.
We'd love to have you join us inside of “Healing Together Coaching Membership”, click here access the group now with a free trial.
A safe place where you can get support, coaching and 24/7 access to asking questions and sharing your story, so you don't have to wait for a random group on Tuesdays at 7 pm when you are putting your kids to bed, or when you're worried about leaving your partner because he's under the influence.
FAQs
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No, it will show as “Mariah Kay Coaching” on your bank statement. You do NOT have to worry about “My Husband's Addiction” showing on your bank statement. 🤍
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This group is all written and online. There are no call times. There IS 24/7 access for you to post, share, use the skills course and ask questions.
I reply every single day in this group (M-F). The moment you join, you get access and can start asking questions, connecting and sharing with others.
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This is a safe place. We will never tell you to "leave" your partner.
We will never talk down about your partner.
This group is about supporting YOU on your unique journey so that you can feel empowered to make the best decision for your life, on your terms.
Anyone in the group who is unkind will be removed immediately (this has never happened).
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YES! You can set your user name to show whatever you’d like when you join us.
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Yes
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YES❤️ We have women from all over. The group has 24/7 online access so you can share, post questions and use the mini trainings anytime day or night.
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No. 💛 This is a PRIVATE community. The only people who can see your posts inside are those who pay to be inside of the membership.
If it makes you feel more comfortable, you can also create or use any name you'd like in the group if you prefer to stay private.
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This membership is more than a support group.
You will have access to tools and higher touch/higher level of support in this group. It is far more hands on, valuable and individualized beyond a typical “support group”.
While there is space to share and support each other, I'll also be providing specific individualized feedback, tools and support to your unique questions.
The tools and resources provided are those that I've paid for overtime and I've redesigned them and added things specifically for this group.
You also always get a response to every single question you post, every week.
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Healing Together Membership is online from a computer or your phone (there is a free phone app) called Circle Communities.
As soon as you join, you will get a link with steps to set up your account.
More About Me
Mariah - The Founder of Healing Together
CRAFT-certified coach, and someone who’s been exactly where you are.
For years, I tried everything to fix my husband’s drinking. I begged, argued, cried, and felt like I was losing myself in the process. It wasn’t until I stopped trying to control his addiction — and started learning how to support real change — that everything shifted.
Now, he's sober. And I'm here to help other women feel the clarity, peace, and strength I once wished I had.
Healing Together is the community I needed when I felt most alone — and the one I’m so honored to offer you now.
