Turn “If I bring up their drinking, they just shut down, get defensive, or blame me” ...
into “Wait… they just said they might need help.”
The secret? Real change starts with the right approach.
Because when you stop arguing, shaming, nagging and walking on eggshells and start using research-backed strategies to respond to their drinking…
Getting them closer to sobriety doesn’t feel impossible anymore it starts to feel real.
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Join 190+ women learning (proven steps) to move their partner closer to sobriety without detaching, leaving, or waiting for “rock bottom”.
You want to support your partner’s recovery, help them get family and protect your peace—Healing Together Course & Private Community is the right place for you.
SOBRIETY DOESN’T JUST MAGICALLY HAPPEN - IT TAKES MOTIVATION AND SUPPORT.
You want things to get better.
You love him. You want things to get better. But figuring out how to actually help him change — and stay connected through it all — is the hard part.
And while you’re trying to hold everything together — the house, the kids, your emotions — there’s little time left to even think about strategy, support, or next steps.
So you fall into old patterns. Avoid the hard conversations.
Brace yourself for the next drinking episode.
You’re not alone — and you’re not doing anything wrong.
This isn’t just about love. Moving them closer to sobriety is about skills.
Tools. Support.
Because sobriety doesn’t just happen.
It takes the right approach — and a community in your corner who gets it..
Your relationship affects everything.
This Is for You If…
– You want to stay with your partner, but not like this
– You’re tired of the constant cycle: drinking, promising to change, repeating
– You’ve read the books, joined the groups, and still feel stuck
– You’re trying so hard to help—but nothing is changing
– You want to support them without enabling
– You want to feel peace again—whether they get sober or not
– They’ve said “I’ll never stop drinking…” “I like drinking”… “I don’t have a problem, you do”… “I don’t need help”
If you’ve ever wondered, will they ever stop drinking…
and will they EVER see, they DO need help?
The Healing Together Membership Course & Private Community will teach you exactly how.
The real secret to helping your partner stop drinking? Small, strategic changes — made by you.
But here’s the problem…
Knowing what to do (and what actually helps) is HARD without guidance and support.
If you’re the one trying to help, it can feel deeply vulnerable.
You’re putting your heart out there, hoping they’ll finally see the problem.
But when they shut down, deny, or dismiss you — especially over and over — it hurts.
It can leave you feeling powerless, alone, or even questioning if things will ever change.
But here’s the truth: You’re not out of options.
You just haven’t been taught the tools that actually work — until now.
If you’re the one pulling back, it can feel just as hard.
You don’t want to give up on them — but when their drinking doesn’t change, when the lies keep coming, or when your efforts go ignored…
You start to shut down.
And the guilt? The anger? The fear? The resentment?
That can be just as painful.
It’s a lot of pressure.
And you’re both left feeling distant, frustrated, and stuck in the same exhausting patterns.
If any of this sounds painfully familiar, you’re not the only one.
I hear from women every day who are trying so hard to help — who love their partner, but feel like addiction has taken over the relationship.
Like nothing they say or do is making a difference.
And that makes sense.
No one ever taught you how to support a partner with addiction in a way that actually works.
You’ve read the books, maybe joined a support group…
But did anyone show you how to talk about their drinking without a fight?
Or how to set boundaries that actually work?
It’s not your fault. Most of us were never taught these skills — because most people don’t even know they exist.
But the skills do exist. The skills just weren’t available to you…
UNTIL NOW…
Introducing…
Healing Together is the only membership designed to give you instant, on-demand access to proven, CRAFT-based support — so you can get the exact tools and guidance your relationship needs, right when you need them most.
This isn’t about putting more on your plate.
It’s about giving you a clear strategic path to helping motivate your partner to get sober while creating a relationship that feels calmer, more connected, and full of real hope again — no matter where your partner is in their sobriety journey.
$37 per month / instant access / cancel anytime
Here's What You Get Inside...
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Move Your Partner Closer to Sobriety Training Course
Turn “Nothing I say makes a difference”
into “They’re actually listening to me.”
Access our CRAFT-informed, on-demand video course — the exact method proven to help 7 out of 10 partners get their loved one into treatment. Inside, you’ll get step-by-step video trainings built on a research-backed framework to help you:
Stop the cycle of reacting, begging, or threatening
Communicate in ways that actually build motivation for sobriety
Set compassionate boundaries you can actually stick to
Respond to relapse without losing your peace
PLUS: You’ll unlock instant access to all past workshops and live coaching replays.
🎧 Accessible anytime from your phone (listen on the go) or from your computer.
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24/7 Personalized Expert Guidance, Steps & Support
Turn “I have no idea what to do right now”
into “I know exactly how to handle this.”
You don’t have to wait for a live call to get help.
Inside the private Healing Together community, you’ll get direct access to me and our trained CRAFT coaches — even if it’s 2am and you feel stuck.
Here’s what that looks like:
Ask questions 24/7 and get personalized answers from me or my co-coach within 24 hours
Get step-by-step support when your partner denies the problem, drinks again, or things feel out of control
Learn from other women’s experiences so you never feel alone in this process
This isn’t a venting group. It’s a coaching space where you’ll learn practical steps and strategies that move your partner closer to sobriety — while helping you feel calmer and more in control.
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A Private Community With 190+ Wives Choosing To Stay
Turn “No one understands what I’m going through”
into “I finally feel seen and supported.”
Healing Together is a safe, compassionate space for women who are staying — and still trying.
Inside, you’ll find:
Encouragement, understanding, and connection from women who get it
A place to be real about how hard this is — without being told to leave
Constant reminders that you’re not crazy, selfish, or alone We will never tell you to leave.
We’ve all been there, and every woman here is working toward the same goal — helping their partner while protecting their own peace. Y
ou can even stay completely anonymous if you want. No pressure. Just genuine support.
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Exclusive Access to the Private Podcast: Honest Talks with Mariah & Her Husband
Turn “I wish I could just ask someone who’s been through this”
into “I finally have the answers I need.”
Join my husband and me for live and previously recorded private podcast sessions where we answer your real questions.
The ones you’ve always wished your partner would answer but hasn’t.
You’ll hear the inside story from both sides of addiction and recovery, including:
How we navigated denial (and what finally broke through).
The arguments we used to have and how we stopped repeating the same fights.
What early sobriety really looked like behind closed doors.
What helped him actually decide to stop drinking…
This is your chance to hear the truth, unfiltered from both perspectives.
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Live Monthly Q&A & Training Workshops + Replays
Turn “I wish I could have asked what to do in that moment”
into “I know exactly how to handle it next time.”
Inside Healing Together, you’ll get instant access to our entire library of past live coaching calls and workshops so you can learn from real situations other women have brought to the table.PLUS - live monthly calls.
Everything from training workshops, to open Q&A’s.
Topics include:
-Setting and sticking to boundaries without guilt
-Communicating in ways that reduce defensiveness
-Navigating denial and excuses
-Responding to relapse without spiraling
-Protecting your peace while still supporting your partner.and more…
Instantly access prior call replay.These will give you the exact words, strategies, and real-life examples so you can apply them to your own situation with confidence.
No need to wait for the next live call because the answers are already waiting for you, on demand.
I WISH I would've had more support all of the years I was navigating my husband's addiction.
Inside of Healing Together, we put your happiness first.
We support you with your emotions, relapses, navigating how you feel and giving you skills to build a life you love.
2am and he comes home drunk, post in the community and your feelings out, be heard (never judged or told to “leave") .
Not sure how you want to navigate a conversation with your husband, post in the community and you'll get real answers on how to strategically converse with him about his addiction.
Feeling really overwhelmed or hurt, we are there to support you so you never are alone in this journey.
Have more peace in knowing you aren't alone and that there are real answers and real steps you can take to actively help your partner and yourself.
Over the years I've gathered tools, gotten coaching, worked with therapists and I've brought that all together into an online coaching & support membership for women like you and me.
We'd love to have you join us inside of “Healing Together Coaching Membership”, click here access the group now with a free trial.
A safe place where you can get support, coaching and 24/7 access to asking questions and sharing your story, so you don't have to wait for a random group on Tuesdays at 7 pm when you are putting your kids to bed, or when you're worried about leaving your partner because he's under the influence.
Join Now With a Free Trial
Monthly Member
$37 USD
per month / cancel anytime
💛 12 Modules That Take You Step By Step Through The Proven CRAFT Method
💛A Strategic Framework To move Your Partner Closer To Sobriety
💛24/7 Access To Peronalized Feedback on Your Unique Situation
💛A Private Community With Over 190+ Women (judgment free zone)
💛Private Podcast With My Husbands Perspective of What Helped Him Get Sober
💛On Demand Access Instantly - No Set Call Times - Access From Any Country
💛A Place To Get Step By Step Answers And Feedback on Communication, Boundaries & More
Quarterly Member
$90 USD
per month / cancel anytime
💚Everything Included in The Monthly Membership
💚3 Months Of Support & Access
💚$21 Savings
Yearly Member
$300 USD
per year / cancel anytime
💚Everything Included in The Monthly Membership
💚12 Months Of Support & Access
💚$145 Savings
FAQs
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No, it will show as “Mariah Kay Coaching” on your bank statement. You do NOT have to worry about “My Husband's Addiction” showing on your bank statement. 🤍
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This group is all written and online. There are no specific call times. There IS 24/7 access for you to post, share, use the skills course and ask questions.
We reply every single day in this group (M-F). The moment you join, you get access and can start asking questions, connecting and sharing with others.
BONUS: There are live monthly calls - these will change day and time monthly.
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This is a safe place. We will never tell you to "leave" your partner.
We will never talk down about your partner.
This group is about supporting YOU on your unique journey so that you can feel empowered to make the best decision for your life, on your terms.
Anyone in the group who is unkind will be removed immediately (this has never happened).
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YES, you can remain anonymous! You can set your user name to show whatever you’d like when you join us. This is a PRIVATE community. The only people who can see your posts inside are those who pay to be inside of the membership. If it makes you feel more comfortable, you can also create or use any name you'd like in the group if you prefer to stay private.
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Yes
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YES❤️ We have women from all over. The group has 24/7 online access so you can share, post questions and learn from the CRAFT on-demand trainings anytime - day or night.
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No. 💛 This is a PRIVATE community. The only people who can see your posts inside are those who pay to be inside of the membership.
If it makes you feel more comfortable, you can also create or use any name you'd like in the group if you prefer to stay private.
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This membership is more than a support group.
You will have access to tools and higher touch/higher level of support in this group. It is far more hands on, valuable and individualized beyond a typical “support group”.
While there is space to share and support each other, We will also be providing specific individualized feedback, tools and support to your unique questions.
The tools and resources provided are those that I've paid for overtime and I've redesigned them and added things specifically for this group.
You also always get a response to every single question you post, as much as you need, daily.
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Healing Together Membership is online from a computer or your phone (there is a free phone app) called Circle Communities.
As soon as you join, you will get a link with steps to set up your account.
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Yes. Healing Together is based on the proven CRAFT Method which is built for situations where direct conversations aren’t creating change anywhere.
You’ll learn specific strategies to lower resistance so your partner becomes more open to talking. E
ven if they stay closed off at first, you’ll still have tools to influence change through your actions, your reinforcement, and your own calm, confident presence.
We even help you word the conversation based on you, your family, your partner and your unique situation.
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Yes.
This membership was designed exactly for those situations.
If your partner is stuck in denial, swears they can handle it on their own, or has made promises to cut back only to fall back into old habits, you’re not alone — most of our members start here.
Inside Healing Together, you’ll learn the CRAFT Method which is a proven, evidence-based approach that teaches you how to:
Lower defensiveness and resistance Make sobriety more appealing than drinking
Motivate your partner to want to change
Guide them toward saying yes to help or treatment
Even if they’ve refused it before… even if they’ve tried and failed… these tools work to move them closer to recovery without detaching, leaving, or waiting for rock bottom.
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Yes.
Lying about drinking is incredibly common when someone is struggling with addiction. It’s usually not about trying to hurt you or make you feel crazy it’s about protecting the addiction.
The CRAFT Method you’ll learn inside Healing Together is designed to work even when your partner isn’t being honest.
You’ll learn how to reduce defensiveness, make honesty more likely, and keep moving them toward change without getting stuck in endless arguments about “if” they drank.
What members say when asked: “What would you tell someone who is thinking about joining Healing Together but isn’t sure yet?”
Healing Together Success Stories
Have more questions? I'm happy to answer them personally.
More About Mariah
Mariah - The Founder of Healing Together
CRAFT-certified coach, and someone who’s been exactly where you are.
For years, I tried everything to fix my husband’s drinking. I begged, argued, cried, and felt like I was losing myself in the process. It wasn’t until I stopped trying to control his addiction — and started learning how to support real change — that everything shifted.
Now, he's sober. And I'm here to help other women feel the clarity, peace, and strength I once wished I had.
Healing Together is the community I needed when I felt most alone — and the one I’m so honored to offer you now.
